Think about it: at work, who's got the most power to make your life easy or difficult? How often do you do something nice for her? Go out for coffee and get to know her better. Talk a bit about work and a bit about leisure. Ask her for some feedback or advice.
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Not ready to actually take action? Buying and reading How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie will make you a better conversationalist.