Stop fucking procrastinating and ask for help, feedback, or advice.

You're putting this off because you think it'll make you look weak or stupid. But when someone asks you for help, do you think "Hah! What a weak and stupid person!"? Only if you're a prick. So: ask a colleague for help. Ask your boss or a peer for some honest, harsh feedback. And ask someone you respect for advice.

It's more about technical questions, but Eric S Raymond wrote a long article about asking smart questions that might be interesting.